It's tough to top my first mentor -- Robert Henderson. I was acting in South Pacific -- a job I picked up mostly because I looked vaguely American and could carry a tune. He took me aside and told me that acting could be a career if I worked for it. Actually he told me two things: that I had to work on my accent (people thought I sounded Polish!) and I had to read more. I left school when I was 13, so his advice to educate myself was the best advice I've ever had. As for how you find mentors, I think you do what you love and you work hard at it and with a bit of luck, you'll find someone who will respond to your effort and your passion.
I don't know if there is ever a moment in itself. I remember getting the call to fly to Canada to do a CNBC production of Macbeth. The paycheck was a flight and $500. That felt like something!
I've always looked for good stories and the opportunity to work with good people. My plan was only as specific as this: work hard and learn from anyone who was prepared to teach me.
I've had the opportunity to work with some first-class people. I'll never forget the months spent in the desert working with Michael Caine and John Huston on The Man Who Would Be King. Working with people you respect on a story that captivates you - those are the good times. As for things I'd do differently, I don't spend much time on regrets.
They should be honest with themselves about where they want to get to and what experiences are going to serve them best along the way. Maybe because I left school so early I am an ardent believer in the power of education. I realize, too, that some opportunities are particular. Just be clear with yourself about what you need to do both to hone your craft and also to support yourself for the long-term.
I said I retired a few years ago, but when I learned of a great children's project called Sir Billi the Vet, I was happy to lend my voice. So, yes, I guess you could say I've found retirement pretty damn enjoyable.